I enjoy my life being part of others lives especially when it com to LOVE. I have one essay about the principle of love that I really kept it since 1996. Now I want to share it here but maybe some of you will not agree on this.
"DIPLOMATIC APPROACH TOWARDS LOVE"
If you love a woman, give her all the freedom she needs. Man has no rights to impede the freedom of a woman has. He has the reason to give advice if she will not heed, don't hate her, instead, protect her from any harm.Continue doing so, if that love is pure and distilled adore her if necessary. When she asked for a total freedom don't hesitate to give it. Set her free in the way you can show how true is your love.
Love will find it's way home, if its home is in your heart, be fortunate, but if not accept that fact, but don't feel sorry, if you do, there is no fool left in this world but, YOU.
Handle frustrations in its minimum, it's always the counterpart of love, the greatest fear of heart. Some men got confused on how to counter it. Drink is enough but temporary, so disastrous, so why not sort to crying...? To cry is not to degrade oneself. It is not only for women but appropraite for a man who wants to get out from the injuries of sorrow, Tears are better than death. Cry aloud for the good of tomorrow.
Don't think of revenge, for it is not the answer at all. Girls are bound to hurt man's heart and it's natural. If you mean to be hurt,then cry and suffer. The amount of pain you'll receive depends entirely on you. Don't think that men are always above women instead think that women need men. To shelter them anytime they wish even how hard it is. Therefore they deserved of no revenged.
All of these are not the act of martyrdoom and stupidity yet diplomatic approached towards love in its success... Perhaps LOVE is innocent don't awake it. Perhaps LOVE is unconcious don't introduce yourself to it. If you will shed your heart , patience and understanding be friendly on the things that LOVE have. Be flexible and be ready for..."Love Will Make You Cry".